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Understanding When a Child with Autism and PDA Elopes or Uses Fantasy
When a child with autism and PDA elopes or uses fantasy, they're using coping mechanisms to manage overwhelming demands and anxiety. Learn how to support their need for autonomy while keeping them safe, with practical strategies for parents navigating these challenging behaviors while fostering connection and understanding.

Michelle Davis
Apr 208 min read
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Understanding and Supporting Your Autistic and PDA Child Who Is Always Bored
Parenting an autistic and PDA child who is always bored presents unique challenges that go beyond typical childhood restlessness. Discover how anxiety, demand avoidance, and sensory needs contribute to expressions of boredom, and learn practical, parent-tested strategies to support your child's engagement while respecting their need for autonomy.

Michelle Davis
Apr 198 min read
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When Your Child with PDA Always Has to Win, Be First, and Impulsively Behave
Parenting a child with PDA who always has to win, be first, and impulsively behave presents unique challenges. This article explores the anxiety and need for control behind these behaviors in children with Pathological Demand Avoidance and autism. Discover practical, compassionate strategies to help your child navigate these challenges while supporting their autonomy and emotional development.

Michelle Davis
Apr 137 min read
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PDA and a Strong Sense of Fairness and Justice
Parenting a child with PDA and autism who has an intense sense of fairness? You're not alone. Discover why justice matters so deeply to these children and how their autism hidden behind ADHD symptoms can manifest as passionate advocacy. Learn practical strategies to support their need for autonomy while helping them develop the flexibility to thrive in our sometimes unpredictable world.

Michelle Davis
Apr 127 min read
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Rejection Sensitivity (RSD), PDA, and Autism: Understanding the Emotional Landscape of Our Children
Understanding rejection sensitivity (RSD) transforms how we parent children with autism and PDA, creating emotional safety for their unique needs.

Michelle Davis
Apr 108 min read
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PDA and Napping: Understanding Your Child's Rest Needs
Finding peaceful paths to rest for children with PDA and autism requires understanding, not demands. Learn strategies that actually work!

Michelle Davis
Mar 157 min read
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Co-Regulation and "Enabling"
Co-regulation isn't enabling—it's essential. Learn how your presence helps your child with PDA & autism develop emotional regulation skills.

Michelle Davis
Mar 1210 min read
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Navigating Sensory Processing Challenges in Children with PDA and Autism
Learn how sensory processing challenges affect children with PDA and autism - learn practical strategies for supporting their unique needs.

Michelle Davis
Mar 98 min read
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When It All Becomes Too Much: Understanding Autistic Burnout and PDA
Learn to spot autistic burnout in PDA children & discover proven strategies from my parenting journey to help your child recover and thrive.

Michelle Davis
Mar 710 min read
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Obsession with People and PDA: Understanding Social Attachments in Pathological Demand Avoidance
When children with PDA and autism find someone who makes them feel safe, they don't just like that person—they are enthralled by them.

Michelle Davis
Mar 613 min read
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When They Say You're Not Parenting Hard Enough: Navigating PDA Misconceptions
When told you're not firm enough with your PDA child, remember: you're not "soft parenting" – you're responding to demand avoidance.

Michelle Davis
Mar 512 min read
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